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Hand in Hand

My dear friend Enida describes a marriage in such a simple and beautiful way - Porta La Distancia?. Precisely what I have in mind. Dan orang tua-tua kata, kalau tak paham jugak baik terjun dalam lori sampah. Because that's where such person belongs.

Marriage is much, much more than those "little excitements" that one can brag about. And one's mind (and her little brain) can be so shallow to the brink of being stupid and ignorant in believing that if one's husband feels so strongly about his wife, that the man is actually controlled by the wife, or stayed together because of the child. I often wonder how can one be so intellectually-challenged to believe that six months of love affair via SMS and telephone can easily break a decade-old marriage. And that six-month period qualifies her to declare that she knows the man better than the wife. Stupid is such a nice word to use.

Comments

Dawai Kokot said…
Emm....utk mencipta 1 rumahtangga yg bahagia tak cukup dgn cintan cintun je. Persefahaman, tanggungjawab, bertolak ansur & kasih sayang. Org yg fikir boleh hidup bahagia dlm perkahwinan hanya dgn cinta sebenarnya silap. Klau kau bercinta je tapi tak di sertakan dgn kasih sayang, tu yg byk jadi kes dok buang2 anak sana-sini. Sbbnya bercinta je tau, tapi tak de perasaan kasih dan sayang. Lagi 1 disebbkn kawin atas dasar cinta tapi tak de kasih sayang la gak, bila dah dok serumah setahun dua mula la rasa yg pasangan kita tu kononnya tu tak memenuhi ciri2 idaman kalbu kita. Tu yg la org selalu kata masa brcinta semuanya cantik, semuanya manis & semuanya wangi. Kentut pun boleh wangi, mulut bau jering pun wangi, ketiak bau hangit pun wangi, muka penuh jerawat batu pun cantik, jalan senget pun lawa & mcm2 ade.
Tapi bila dah kawin baru la sedar yg kentut busuk, ketiak hangit, muka mcm kawah bulan. Pas tu bila dah trnampak org lain yg kononnya lebih lawa dr pasangan kita mula la nak beralih arah. Ape kau ingat kawin ni mcm main pondok2 masa kecik2 dulu, ari ni kawin ngan Abu, esok tak nak la dgn Abu dia gemuk aku nak kawin dgn Atan lak, pas tu esoknya lagi nak tukar lak org lain. Sekali aku lesing baru kau tau.
Aniza said…
Tak payah lesing trash macam dia ni. Buat penat je... Dah kawin 25 August 2005, tapi boleh menipu tu. Nasib baik nothing happen to both of us. Imagine kalau because of this lori sampah something happen to our marriage... Tak berbaloi langsung. At least, certain kind of trash you can recycle and make some money out of it. But this kind of trash and hypocrite... Err... apa kau cakap hari tu? Ustazah terlampau?
Dawai Kokot said…
Sampah ni hanya sesuai di hantar ke Bukit Pelandok je utk buat mkn ternakan kat sana. Tu pun klau tauke2 kat Bukit Pelandok tu nak.