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It's Time to Stop Watching Trash Malay Dramas

I'm going to be very blunt here. I don't really care about this person anymore and if anybody actually know her, then you'll know what kind of person she really is. Remember I was angry with someone. Let's call her "A". She's part of the family but has this attitude that doesn't belong to the family. If you have watched Malay drama yang tunjuk suri rumahtangga yang tak ada kerja lain pegi rumah orang mengumpat and bercerita pasal orang and tabur fitnah and putarbelit cerita, that's the attitude I'm referring to.

I have helped this person a lot. Sampai sanggup kasi pinjam kereta so that she can go back Raya even though kereta I tu dah nak jual. And as a result, we sold the car after Raya and didn't get a single sen. That is how far I was willing to help in the name love of a family member. Kasi pinjam duit? Check. Ajar anak dia for free? Check. Dengar cerita dia dan sokong dia sampai I jadi marah dengan mak sendiri? Check. Until I sedar lately that she is not the person she appears to be and rasa menyesal marah dengan my own mother.

A few days ago my eldest brother terlampau bengang dengan dia, went over to see her and my youngest brother and they spilled everything out. At one point "A" tried to defend herself and put the blame on someone else that my father unexpectedly naik angin yelled at her saying she's a liar who goes around putarbelit cerita melaga-lagakan orang and goes around kampung mengumpat about us. I imagine after that kind of incident where your own father-in-law where you menumpang tinggal and makan-minum atas ehsan orang tua tu akan sedar diri, bertaubat and most importantly mintak maaf. But she didn't. The next day terus round kampung cari information siapa yang bocorkan rahsia dia to us and try to find a scapegoat.

Oh my God. I always thought orang macam ni cuma ada dalam Malay drama yang pompuan-pompuannya bercerita dan mengumpat dan membuat fitnah dengan mulut yang sangat laser dah tak pikir dosa. But this kind of people actually exist. And we have become victim to this kind of people.

Hubby said something that struck me as a possibility on why this happen. "A" ni, plus the fact agaknya memang perangai sejak azali macam tu, suka tengok drama Melayu kat TV especially yang petang-petang and after berita pasal orang dengki-mendengki, orang tu buat fitnah nak jatuhkan orang lain, you know that kind of trash they show on TV. Hubby said "A" should stop watching such drama. Perhaps she got so carried away with the stuff she watch and practiced it. Perhaps she thought that is how the world goes.

If she was influenced by what she watched, even at the smallest bit, then you can imagine dosa yang ditanggung oleh orang-orang yang related to that kind of drama. From the actors, the producers, the crew, the TV station yang actually beli and show people... The whole "chain" of people. Imagine... And imagine if this is not the only case... Imagine the consequences. Imagine the re-runs in years to come. Sampai mati dosa tu tetap datang.

Ya Allah... rasa nak menangis ingatkan. Dan rasa bersyukur (dan sentiasa berdoa) janganlah ada something I do that has this kind of chain effect. Kalau chain effect tu benda-benda yang mendatangkan pahala sampai end of time, then alhamdulillah.

Pada "A" - bertaubatlah.

Comments

Anonymous said…
wow this is heavy drama. tell your hubby he's wrong. the malay dramas were based on true story, of "A". lol. is she a real person or what? if scriptwriters read your entry, they will be scrambling to meet her to get the correct mood for their latest dramas. hidup drama melayu.
Aniza said…
Hahaha... true story. Tu belum masuk cerita unsur-unsur syirik tu... Lagi tambah interesting. Anyway, what goes around comes around. It's a loss on her side not mine. Buat jahat kat orang yang selalu tolong dia. Let's see if her kawan-kawan "ahli mesyuarat tingkap" will help her when she's in need. Kalau tolong, alhamdulillah...